Mother's Day 2016

Mother's Day is a day for honoring one's own mother, as well as motherhood, maternal bonds and the influence of mother's in society. To celebrate the women who love unconditionally, who put their kids first above all others and the one you can always count on. A day to show appreciation to the one person who does the work of twenty...for free.

Being a mom is hard work, really hard work. Even harder than being a mom is being a step mom. The hardest thing of all might just be a working mom. I knew it wasn't going to be easy and I absolutely love all my kids, but there are some days when it can be overwhelming.

Payton Alaina is one of the best things that has ever happened to me. That little girl might not look a thing like me, but she has my whole heart. It has been so exciting to see her learn new things and find her personality. It has also been so stressful to see her sick or get frustrated because I don't know what she wants. It is terrifying to think about her getting hurt or that I might make the wrong decisions for her. How do I know if if I am doing the right things. Aaron will tell you that I do a really good job of putting all the pressure on myself to make sure everything goes right. I want her to have the best life. Her life is just starting and I can't wait to watch her experience life and I will support her in every way I can.


Andrew Joseph was a little 4 year old when I first met Aaron. I was only 23 and didn't even realize how much of an impact he would have on me. I can remember those chubby cheeks and his cute little personality. He has always been the sweetest kid and funny like his daddy. I have watched him turn into a teenager and while he can be a little ornery, he still has the biggest heart. I am sure it has been a little bit of an adjustment for him to be away from his mom and living with us. I wanted to make sure it was an easy transition for him. It can be hard sometimes for both of us, but I think Andrew and I have a pretty great relationship. All I want is for that kid to be happy and enjoy being a teenager. I will do whatever is needed to make sure that happens.

Kristen Elizabeth is 18 years old! Never in a million years did I think at 33 I would have a college student as a daughter. In the beginning when she was only 8 it was hard. I remember sending a gift and spelling her name Kristin instead of Kristen - FAIL! It was difficult to build a relationship with her since she lived so far away. I made a point to have lots of fun things planned every time she visited. It was always fun seeing her and Andrew together, but then she would have to leave again and it felt like we were starting over every summer. Now she is here and she is making big life decisions. What is my role and what are my boundaries? I want her to know I am here to help, but I don't want her to feel like I am pushing her any certain way. Kristen is 18 years old though, she is an adult and it's time for her to become independent. I will be here for her and will help however I can.



Just over a year and a half ago Aaron, Cami and I were loving life in our new house. I knew a baby was going to be in our future soon. I knew that Andrew was thinking about moving in with us, but it wasn't for sure. I did NOT know that we would soon outgrow our new house and I would be taking on a big role as a mother of 4 (Cami's still my baby). Not only am I a mother, I am a wife, I am a Media Specialist, I am the financial adviser, I am the one that keeps things moving. Trust me, I could not do all this without Aaron providing for our family every day, and sometimes 10+ hours a day. On those 10+ hour days I am exhausted and he helps when he can. He is very appreciative of all I do, and some days I wish he, along with the kids, really knew what it takes to be a mother.

Today, Aaron wanted me to celebrate Mother's Day how I wanted to. I needed that! I was able to have some time to do the things I love...playing with shelter dogs and spending time with my family. I was also surprised with some very thoughtful gifts from all of them. I am thankful to have them in my life and glad I was able to celebrate this day with some time to myself and the ones I love. Happy Mother's Day to all those women who go above and beyond everyday. You are appreciated!



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  1. Tasha you are a fantastic Mother and Wife we all love you and Aaron and the kids. Thank you for all you do. Payton is the cherry on top. She is so precious.

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